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Apr. 5th, 2008 03:05 amFrom the NYT Sunday Magazine article on student abstinence groups:
Fredell saw too many women compromise themselves in order to have a relationship. And she also saw those women when their men walked away. The Web site warned what happens then to the sexually active; that oxytocin, in such cases, can cause “a palpable sense of loss, betrayed trust and unwelcome memories. This is information that you will rarely hear from sexual-health groups,” because, the Web site says, “there is no condom for the heart.”
Fredell asked me, “Why bond yourself so intensely when you’re not sure you’re going to spend the rest of your life with this person?”
My only comment for the moment, because, late, is: BARF!
Fredell saw too many women compromise themselves in order to have a relationship. And she also saw those women when their men walked away. The Web site warned what happens then to the sexually active; that oxytocin, in such cases, can cause “a palpable sense of loss, betrayed trust and unwelcome memories. This is information that you will rarely hear from sexual-health groups,” because, the Web site says, “there is no condom for the heart.”
Fredell asked me, “Why bond yourself so intensely when you’re not sure you’re going to spend the rest of your life with this person?”
My only comment for the moment, because, late, is: BARF!
